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Nov 14, 2008
prayers
by: Anonymous

May God bring you all the love you desire and more. I am praying for you. Be visible in your light and love, shine forth your truest and deepest light into the world, and those who resonate with you and who are meant to be with you will come to you. Blessings, Amen.

Nov 16, 2008
You Are NOT alone!
by: Anonymous

I hope you will derive some comfort from knowing that as I read your prayer request I was struck by how incredibly similar my own plight is to yours! Please know that you are not alone in praying for the nature of miracle you requested! I, too, am feeling lost, lonely, broken and in need of a miracle to bring (back) to me the love of the man I've loved and dreamed of being with for years--or, as you said--if it is simply not meant for me to be with this man, for the presence of the one who IS meant for me to make itself known. Like me, you appear equally aware that free will is at play with these men we love and that it simply may not be God's will for us to be with them. You must know then too that if that is the case, that the men
God HAS chosen for us must be infinitely more wonderful than we can possibly imagine! I am finally willing now to surrender my falsely perceived "control" of this situation and once and for all allow God and the Holy Spirit to make the choices for me. I trust that my greatest good is always and ONLY served when I allow God to the deciding for me. Though you and I are strangers, we are walking a similar path right now, and I pray that you'll derive some measure of comfort from knowing that you are NOT walking it alone. I will remember you (and your Phillip) in my prayers and humbly ask that you remember me and the man of my hopes and dreams in your prayers as well. I've often heard and read that when 2 or more join in a common prayer God cannot refuse. (Not that I believe He would otherwise.) Still, I can only assume the power of our prayers will be amplified as we offer them together.

I hope you will very soon be the recipient of all the love and peace you richly deserve from whomever you desire.

May All God's Blessings Be Upon You Now!

Nov 17, 2008
Reply
by: Thank you

I am the original poster. I pray in agreement with you that our loves will return or that God will reveal who we are meant to be with. Thank you. I will continue to pray for us both!!!

Nov 17, 2008
Prayers for Peace
by: Deb

Dear Friends...today, I pray with both of you for PEACE within for each and all of us during this time of some upheaval. Blessings of love/light.

Nov 17, 2008
Lonely and lost like you
by: Sangeeta

Dear Kimberley and the other lady who shares a similar situation. I am ina similar situation as you both and utterly confused and hurt. I have lost my husband's love suddenly. Know not why. Please pray that he comes back to me. Let's join hands în a common prayers.
Love
Sangeeta

Nov 18, 2008
Joining Hands
by: Anonymous

Ladies,

I am the second ("anonymous") poster to this thread. First and foremost, thank you so much for offering to support me as well. I'm sure there is, and will continue to be, tremendous power in joining hands in prayer together here in this "virtual world." I'm equally certain that we are but a very, very few of what I'm sure must be a vast number of women (and men) who are experiencing the pain of separation from those individuals with whom we long to join in a loving, fulfilling relationship. What I've gradually come to accept and understand during this separation from the man I have believed for so long I am meant to share my life with, is that if in fact any "real" obstacles are standing in our way, they have--in some way--manifested for our mutual greatest good. I'm at a loss, presently, to explain what that greatest good could be, but I have to believe that my Higher Self and God are co-creating what is ultimately best for my (and my partner's) spiritual evolution. I believe the Highest and Best is all God ever wants for us. If that's true, and if it's also true that our thoughts create our reality, than somehow this "dark night of the soul" we may feel we are experiencing right now is serving some purpose. Lastly, I have also come to believe that our relationships with others are intended to function primarily as mirrors, wherein we have the opportunity to see and experience (through others) what we both like and dislike most about ourselves. In this way we can come to some understanding of what it is we most wish to further develop and at times, what we most wish to change about ourselves. Over and over I see evidence that when I change MYSELF, (and thereby change the reflection I project to others) those same positive (or negative) changes are reflected back to me. And so I am rededicating myself to comporting myself at all times in as calm, warm, loving, trusting, yet FEARLESS manner as possible, with the positive expectation that he will reflect the same back to me. For what it's worth, even though two weeks ago I tearfully and angrily told him I could no longer allow myself to extend myself in friendship to him any longer (and received little more than stony silence in return) I have (without explaining its what I'm doing) shifted my perspective, dropped my expectations of/for him and treated him with nothing less than warmth, good will and humor and to my pleasant surprise have received the same and more in return from him. He remains cautious to be sure, but the playfulness and warmth I've so missed is beginning to return.

I am the first to admit I am ill-equipped to offer relationship advice to anyone, but if we are, after all, coming from love (with no expectation of receiving ego gratification from them in return) I think it's likely we'll receive something even better and richer in return.


God bless you all and thank you so much for joining me in prayer for all of us!!


Nov 18, 2008
You are not alone
by: Mashubi

Dearest friends,

I am seeing so many people going through changes in their relationships right now. You are not alone, and I am so glad for the love and support you are sharing, as this is a very painful and difficult time.

At my husbands workplace he has seen nearly every one of his co-workers divorce in the past year. It's a really stunning phenomenon that is not just happening here. As you can see, many of the prayer requests that we receive here on this site are prayers for healing of relationships.

We have several resources here that you may find helpful, which I've included links to below. Also, if you think of other supports we can offer here, please let me know.

Beautiful daily meditations for the heart by Julie Redstone - Meditations on Love, Relationships, and Letting Go



We also have many articles and supports on Spiritual Relationship Advice

With much love, and continuing to hold you in prayer,

Mashubi

Dec 21, 2008
re: Lost, lonely, broken, and needing a miracle
by: DR

Dearest Kimberly,

I feel the depth and purity of your constant prayers, and I ask too that God hears them, and that you feel the comfort very soon of knowing your prayers have been heard, and healing received. With much love...

Dec 22, 2008
praying for you, myself and others in our situation
by: J

I can relate to your situation more than you know. I will pray for you as well as the other who are going through this. The loss of a love like this is something few people every realize. But those who do understand the complete darkness every second of your day is in. I relate it to a feeling of numbness all the time. please pray for me as well that we may both be shown our miracles in the very near future.

God Bless,

J

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